I’m pretty sure I’m not being a good friend.
I told my best friend about how I thought his buying a “fixer upper” house was a terrible idea. And that his idea of renting it out in a few years if a pipe dream, and how much shite I think it is because he’s settling on something that doesn’t make sense. THE WHOLE TIME I’ve known him he’s gone on and on about how the first house he’s gonna buy is gonna have a garage because he wants to live in a place where ALL of his tools can be at his house, and not his mother’s house. And guess what? His fixer upper?? No garage. I told him about how I don’t understand his rationale for settling, and he said “Well I’ve changed my mind” no…I’ve settled because i’m lazy and don’t want to work for what I want, especially if my infantile bride-to-be wants to play betty homemaker. GRR!!
Sadly I don’t know if my friendship with him will hold up solid during all his stupidity. I just don’t understand some of the decisions he’s making and, while I know its not my job or business to understand, having a rational basis behind it all helps a friendship. If I just disagreed that would be one thing, but I vehemently APPALL these decisions! They’re irrational, impulsive and unorganized - everything he is NOT.
At this rate I’m willing to say “PACK YOUR OWN DAMN SHIT.” But THAT would be shitty.